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The Best 13 Herbs to Use in Love Spells


Is your love life needing help? For centuries people around the world have turned to herbs for all of their ails. From flavoring and fragrance to healing and spell casting, herbs have found their way into our hearts and homes.  

In this post, we will explore the best herbs to use in love spells. If you are wondering what herbs are used in love spells and how to ask for a love spell, we’re here to help you on your journey.

The Best Herbs to Use in Love Spells

There are many herbs in our beautiful world that have connections to love. You may be surprised at how many might be in your kitchen cabinet or growing outdoors near your home. With knowledge and practice, you can use these herbs to aid you in all your quests in love.  

There are many reasons one may feel the need to cast a love spell. There are also many ways to use herbs in love spells — the most common of which is to make potions. I will share herbs related to their specific needs.

Herbs for Self-Love

Before all else, self-love is the most important. For how can you know love without loving yourself? It is not an easy thing to do. Many of our societies have instilled the idea that self-love is conceited and vain. We are brought up believing that love is somewhere out there, and you are not whole without someone else. This is sad, for we are complete and worthy of love, of our love. 

If you need help loving yourself, the following herbs are beneficial.


Lavender, also known as Spikenard, is a delicate purple flower. Its calming effects are commonly sought in our fast-paced societies of today. The ruling Planets of lavender are Neptune and Mercury. Lavender’s elements are air and water. The magical properties of lavender include:

  • Attraction
  • Protection
  • Happiness


Melissa is also known as Lemon Balm. Melissa is quite helpful in self-love applications. It is calming and cleansing. Melissa is ruled by the moon, and its element is water. Magical properties include:

  • Love
  • Longevity
  • Happiness


Roses are one of the best-known love herbs. The rose is ruled by Venus, and its element is water. Magical properties of roses include: 

  • Love
  • Luck
  • Protection

Use rose water to feel self-love and boost feelings. Carry a rose with stem and thorns for protection.

Herbs to Attract Love to You

Attraction is also part of self-love. We attract what we feel. If you want to attract love to you, your intentions must be pure. You must believe yourself deserving and worthy of love. Believe in yourself. Believe you already have what you want. 

These herbs will help you focus on attracting love.


Saffron is a crocus flower originating in Greece. Its smell is intoxicating, and it has remained the most expensive and sought-after herb for centuries. Saffron’s ruling planet is the sun, and its element is fire. There are many ways to use it, from burning to making an amulet with it. Magical properties of saffron include:

  • Fertility
  • Attraction
  • Love


Rosemary is also known as Elf Leaf. It is an herb often found in our cabinet or growing in our kitchen garden. It is ruled by the sun, and its element is fire. Rosemary’s magical properties include:

  • Love
  • Protection
  • Cleansing

Rosemary has been used to attract love since ancient Roman times. Keep rosemary with you to attract the love you desire.


Vanilla is an orchid that makes seed pods. It is one of the most expensive herbs available. Vanilla was first cultivated by the Totonac-Aztec People. It is ruled by Venus, and its element is water. Magical properties include:

  • Beauty
  • Passion
  • Love

Vanilla has long been thought to produce a euphoric, love-welcoming effect. 


Jasmin, the sweet, intoxicating flower that only blooms at night. Wrapped in myth and legend for thousands of years. People have turned to this herb to help them in many ways, including matters of the heart. Jasmine is ruled by the moon, and its element is water. Some of jasmine’s magical properties are:

  • Love 
  • Lust
  • Dreams

To help attract love, drink jasmine tea or wear jasmine. You may also give jasmine flowers to someone you love.

Herbs to Strengthen a Bond of Love

You are already in love, but you wish your bond to be stronger. This is a good place to be. Strengthening the bond is caring for each other. It is nurturing the love you have together. Here are some herbs that will help the two of you focus on your union.

Lemon Verbena 

Lemon verbena’s planet is Mercury, and its element is air. Magical properties of Lemon verbena are:

  • Attraction
  • Protection
  • Beauty

It is said that lemon verbena strengthens communication between two people and enhances the bond between them. 


Papaya is such a giving and sensual plant. Every part of the papaya can be used for food, medicine, and magic. Papaya’s planet is the moon, and its element is water. Magical properties of papaya include:

  • Love
  • Protection

Share a papaya with your true love to help strengthen your bond.

Herbs to Rekindle Love’s Flame

You are having trouble in your relationship. The feeling, for whatever reason, your bond is thinning or breaking. There are herbs to help you draw that love flame back into your life. 


We all have cinnamon in our pantries, and it can be used to bring a love back to you and detoxify any negative energy between a couple. Its planet is the sun, and its elements are air and fire. It’s powerful and common, so it’s used in lots of magic recipes. Magical properties of cinnamon include:

  • Healing
  • Warmth
  • Love

Using cinnamon can promote its elemental fire – and bring the fire back to your love life. 


Caraway is another spice found in our pantries. It has been used for centuries as an aid to find and keep love. It is ruled by Mercury, and its element is air. Magical properties of caraway include:

  • Luck
  • Love
  • Passion

It is said that if you chew caraway before kissing someone, they will fall in love with you. Caraway is protecting and has been used to keep everything from animals to people from going astray or being stolen. 

Herbs to Help Heal Broken Heart

There is nothing quite so painful as that of a broken heart. Heartbreak is the same as mourning. And you are mourning. Heartbreak can be from physical death, such as a loved one has crossed over and your left to finish this journey without them. It could also be a psychological death. This can result when the one you thought you would always be with has separated from you. 


Angelica is also known as Archangel. Its planet is the sun, and its element is fire. Magical properties of Angelica include:

  • Protection
  • Love

Angelica root carried with you offers strength.


Rue’s planet is Mars, and its element is fire. These are some of rue’s magical properties:

  • Healing
  • Protection
  • Exorcism

Make an incense to help you heal and protect your heart with rue, sandalwood, and lavender.

No matter the reason, the feelings you have are very real, and you are experiencing physical and psychological pain. 

These feelings are valid. However, you need self-care and self-love more than ever. These herbs are good for healing and letting go. They will help strengthen you and bring balance back into your life.

Love: The Most Desired and Beautiful Emotion We Crave and Need in Our Lives.

There is help from the physical and spiritual realms around us. Everything is connected. You are deserving of love, happiness, and devotion. 

Oftentimes, our needs are too much for us to help ourselves. This is because we need help in realms we do not understand. There are special people, the healers, the witches, who have the training and the knowledge to help. 

Am such a healer. I have psychic ancestry and psychic abilities. I grew up learning herbs and magic from my grandma. World-renowned for my love spells, I will help you. Contact me now if you need powerful love spells and magic .


I'm Mama Anne from Uganda, the owner of this website and a traditional healer with over 40 years of experience. I specialize in love spells and am well versed in all kinds of magic that can help people worldwide find the love they wish for and deserve. The first time I learned about my innate psychic and spiritual ability was when I was still a child, looking into an old mirror whose owner had died. I found out that I could communicate with the mirror's late owner, and my grandmother noticed the talent. Then, I was brought up learning about the magic in the world and how it can help people. There is love at the center of it all, and I understand the importance of love for everyone.

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